So i know the last wrote did hit home for a lot of people. This note will as well.
Guy: Don't worry baby..we gonna get through this no matter what
Girl: We can do this together no matter what...we can do this
It starts off like that...things go good...first few months pass...and then people feel like they can't keep their word anymore and end up leaving when people are needed the most. I am talking about single parents and how people could have the courage to up and LEAVE when you were the same person who helped create the life in the first place.
WHY AM I DOING THIS ALONE....I WAS PROMISED THAT WE WOULD DO THIS TOGETHER
Now this is a very serious subject to me cause it has happened to a lot of people in my family.Most of the women that i tagged in this note are moms..STRONG moms as a matter of fact.I know they each have gone through some hardship so i wanted them to see this, and hear their input. Some while they had the child or even later on in life. I am seeing more and more single parents, MOMS mainly pushing around strollers and having to carry the burden alone cause the guy couldn't own up to what he had done.
Is it the girls fault that she believed that the guy was going to be true to his word or was it the guys fault for leading the girl on. We see all these " He's my baby daddy" stuff on Maury and Montel...and laugh about it. In reality it happens to people you know everyday.
Is the guy in the wrong or is the girl in the wrong....and why does the child have to be put in the middle? The child had no say that he/she wanted to be born..Most children are not planned these days. I know if feels better not having protection...we all have said it and we all have done it at least once...but we run the risk of getting to the point where there is no turning back (and for sure ABORTION is not right but we will save that for another day)
It is very easy to place blame on people...but it is needed for people to own up and take care of your kids. If children are the future...why are we not making it easier for them? Why is it that we have to give them half of a life..?
Yes i know sometimes its better that we do separate from our other half cause they are more of a threat to the family....BUT "You must know who you play with before you go and lay with"
I know i did go all over the place with this note but I want to leave this thought with you...i want you to look at it as if you had a child beside you...without a father, or without a mother..they are somewhere out at home with their next bf...do you think you would be able to do it all on your own...to all the single parents out there...hold your head up...it was not your fault life handed you this card but its up to you how you play it...but i want everyone to keep this thought in mind
IF YOU LEAVE CAN YOU IMAGINE ANOTHER PERSON RAISING YOUR CHILD...WOULD YOU NOT WANT YOUR CHILD TO HAVE THE MORALS YOU WANT THEM TO HAVE??